Sexual Initiation Ceremony 

Sexual Initiation Ceremony, Carmen Blog

The art and power of initiation is the main element of my work. It is woven in everything I do. When I work with energy, I initiate the heart to open. When I guide tantric sessions, we initiate the space. We set intentions. For one another

Sexual Initiation is about having a sacred intention for your love making. It is here to inspire you. It is here to make your life and lovemaking more beautiful. More touching. More embodied. More magical. More timeless. More gifted. More divine.

I teach you to work with sexual initiation. To open something . To touch something in yourself and in your partner or lover. To be present by what is happening. By what is revealing itself. By what is exposing through one another

For me this is just pure bliss. Pure love. Pure radiance. Even when it goes deep. Even when it goes dark. Even when trauma comes up in the body. This can be super attractive. It can be so amazing to see someone healing in front of you. While you hold space. While you guide that with beautiful lovemaking. With intention. With a safe ground in yourself. Within consent. Within boundaries. Within desires.

I am one of the first teachers that is upon this. I don’t know any other teacher who shares this gift around the world. It is something that came through me in rememberance of once upon a time that I did work in the temples of Lemuria and Egypt. In that time sexuality was just more normal to our days. It was held as something sacred. As something to God. Something to Sophia. We knew it was a gateway to heaven on earth. To more vital and blissful energy in our bodies and soul.

To go consciously and chosen, in a sacred container of beauty with your beloved or lover is very special. I will guide and initiate the space. I will show you how to hold such a space for transformation. How to work with sexual initiation. It is just to inspire you. To awaken something inside.

Many people share lovemaking in a state where they are not really present with themselves and eachother, while this is so important. This makes it way more beautiful. It gives more respect to eachother. You will feel more seen. More loved. More chosen. More special. More sacred to eachother.

Sexuality is a portal to more love. To healing. To awakening. To expanding. To knowing. To unknowing.

Instead of going rough or fast without any conscious ground, we go slow and intentional. This journey does prepare you to something else. It can go more wild and free but we will not start there. We move from initiation into expansion. Into revelation.

This is not a surface level teaching. This is not just to get h*rny. This is not to get naked. This is not to get something out of it. This is to be receptive as you don’t know what is revealing. This is to really be touched in your heart. In your mind. In your emotions.

This is for you if you want something different in your love life and in your sexuality. This is to become an embodied man and woman of love and eros. A deeper and more magical being on earth.

This is for all the people who feel ready to be a King and Queen of Gold and Pearl light in the bedroom. There is nothing more attractive then a lover or beloved who knows what to do. Who does not just want to grab anything from you. Who is here to listen to you. To guide you into a deeper state of ‘I am’. To truly see you. To give you an experience that will last forever in your heart. It can be mindblowing. It can be just so meaningfull that it forever will be a gift in your memory.

I am here to make lovemaking more beautiful. More meaningful. Blissful. Powerful. Magical. Spiritual. Energetical. Healing. “We went home into more bliss.” This is what people said after a Temple night with me. After guiding them through a journey. After 18 years of being together, there lovemaking did grow in so much beauty.

This is what I want for people. I want people to grow in more love and sexuality. To release all the shame of sexuality. To bring more desires in a safe and consent way alive. I am here to break the walls down around sexuality. I am here to guide you to release the suppression on it. In a healthy way. With joy. With love. With celebration. With care and softness.

It is time that sexuality becomes our beauty again. Our expression of love. Our energy of empowerment. Our gate to divine wisdom. Our awakening to higher realms. Our specialty. Our travel into golden honey and pearl sweets. Our remembering of Eden on earth. Our right to be fully open in the most magnificent energy of the soul.

Sexuality is pure beauty. It is not just about orgasms. It is about so much more. Exactly that can higher the amount and intensity of orgasms. We are here to learn more about it. To be sacred for one another in our touch, kiss and wildness. Sexuality is eros in wholenss. In light and dark radiance. Sexuality has more colors. Just like we do. More ways. More depth. It can touch shadow and light. It can be kinky or fairy soft

Working with the gift of sexual initiation is inspiring. It will make you feel excited for the moment of sharing intimacy with your beloved or lover. It will make you feel more proud of yourself, for what you are able to hold. For what you are able to initiate. For what you open in the heart of the other. In the body of one another. In the emotions underneath the dust.

This experience is hard to describe. It is one of a 1000 roses. A journey of love and sacred senses. A journey of golden light. One that awakens the body. One that captures foreverness in one night.


This journey can be soft and small. Intention and initiation can do a lot to someone. Sometimes the smallest initations can have the most strong outcome. The outcome can be anything. It does not need to be orgasmic. It can be emotional. It can feel like a relief. It can feel freeing. It can feel so touching that you just want tos cream. It can make the heart falls deeper in love. It can feel overwhelming. It can feel super deep and intense. It can feel like sparks of joy just move over your spine. There can be moments where you laugh of tears. The beauty of initation is just art itself. It is pure authentic beauty.

As you know from me now, by reading through my website, everything I do is about growing in authenticity. Everything is pure. I love to welcome you in this sacred temple journey. I only work with people that are devoted, embodied and safe. I only work with people that are really ready to open this space. In a container of love and beauty. With super good intentions. For you and your partner. Also for me.

I am here to guide you in beautiful sessions. In sacred initiation work. For a single woman or single man, I am here too. Only if that feels really right to the both of us. Notice that this is just about teaching. About inspiration and initiation. To just have that clear with me. We talk everything through in consent.


For Rose Lovers and Partners. For people who want to glow more in their sexuality. Who want to more confident as a love maker. Who want to feel a deep heart connection with eachother. Who want to serve more beauty for one another. You will take gifts home that capture you in a bath of stars. For you and your beloved.


Carmen Heystek

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