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The Embodied Gentlemen club

I am here to initiate you into becoming a greater man. To let go of parts of you that are done with existing. Men that visit my initiations are tired of their ego. Of being alone. Unembodied. Selfish. Thriving the world for succes without love. With me they will make a full change.

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There is so much beauty when a woman, initiates a man

There are many selfish men still out there. Giving examples that are not the ones that are truly needed here. A true gentleman is not only here for himself. He is here for union. With his partner. His family. His friends. His community. His mission.

The initiations break down selfish stuff. Too great stuff. The too small man. The suffering man. The immature boy. The rich man who feels empty inside. The spiritual freedom seeker without any ground to hold.

I am here for men who are already embodied and for the men who are still growing, but choose to truly embody themselves. For me it is not about where you are, but where you want to be more. It is about devotion. To you and life. To you and others. To you with love. From love. To more love. To pure life.

This is for men who want to make a choice

Who feel like they always 'mess up' in love

It is only for them who are done with this era. This is for men who maybe are not ready, but choose to be ready. When you feel aligned with becoming a man of love, honour and devotion, this is your place. In my 1:1 Mentorship you can grow as a true man. This journey is sacred and special. In my embodied gentlemen club, we level up again. By initiations that are special. 

There is a group training coming for men only. One where so many parts come together of love and life. Of manhood , brotherhood, partnership and business. There is also an exclusive part connected to the embodied gentlemen club. Only for sacred men. Held by love. You can book a ‘date’ with me, to find a way to your destiny. To your glow. To your carreer. To your ultimate love life. To your romantic heart. To the sacredness of your golden pearl nectar. To the sexual embodied vessel of your being.

“For me the place of leadership is about us. It is never just about you. It is never about a lonely person, thriving alone. It is about someone who wants union in his life. With his one and only. With his forever choice to make her/him his home. With brother and sisterhood around him.
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When you are here, energy will do her thing

For you. To you. With you.

Love moves me. Sexuality is art to me. I wish my art to reach you.

I want you to become a greater man. To you and others. Embodied. Wise. Confident. Elegant. Surprising. Magical. Tasteful. Alive. Sexual Embodied. Clear. Not harsh. Not too sweet. Soft but Golden. Direct. Goal Focused. As a leader. Open and emotional.

A man who honours himself, his partner and his life deeply in all that matters, can conquer the world. One-on-one my initiations will let you deepen and rise. In my group container you are held by gorgeous men around you. Men who are also devoted. Men who will hold you too. Who have to face their challenges, just like you. Choose a super exclusive date with me, to find out which road leads you into higher bliss and true love. Into grounding and forever a cherish of something sacred.

Work with me 1:1

I take you down on your knees, into the spiral of your body. Through initiation. Through dominiation from a female perspective. Directly I will move you within your kundalini energy. To find more heaven on earth. Grow, Heal and Transform. Empower yourself from the deep dark eros of your body. Grow in more light eros. Wave the two as one. My purpose for you is to be alive in your full elixir. In the sexual energy of your body. To grow there, healing is needed. Facing what is truly there. Moving away from the mind into the extraordinary magic of spirit. Of love. Any emotion can come up. You can not be free or rooted when the ego is like wall. When you exclude spirituality in your life. When sexuality is just a surface level transmission. When anything you do is just a caught up from the mind. You are here to live from your heart. From your soul. From the sexual glow of your body. This is your sacred medicine. Your power. Your way up to God. To the feminine. To her Queendom. No Kingdom is complete without her. My Divine Wisdom takes you truly to love and beauty. To the Union of all.

Work with a Group

The Online and Live Group Training for men will be announced soon. Here it is about devotion to all era’s of love, life and business, that are important to hold, close to your heart. I am here to initiate transformation. You all together as great men, will deepen it all for and with eachtoher.

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This is for you if…

A group of men that are embodied in different eras of life is super inspiring to work with. A one-on-one sacred journey with me is so special too. I love to create something amazing. I look straight into your heart. Into your soul. Into your desire. Into the weak spots and the stronger ones. Into the light and the shadow. I will let it rise, from love. My initiation touch something to become more free. Enriching you in many sacred and intimate ways. Enquiries can be answered with a sacred no or yes. I ask you to receive my embodied note with respect. I only accept men who are ready, conscious and mature enough to dive into this work.

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I’m here for you

I can’t wait to meet more amazing men. Men who are still young but so ready to grow. Men who are fathers and want to become an even deeper home to their family. Men who are business leaders, who are ready to level up again. To thrive not just for money but from their soul. Men who are already great partners, but want to be an even more bath of love. Men who are curious how to become more alive in their body. Men who want to be more elegant. More fashionable. More sacred. More sweet. More gentle. More capable of holding space. For emotions. For fears. For insecurities. For their partner. For their surroudings.

Men who want to become deeper embodied lovemakers in the bedroom. Spoiling their partner with magic. With care. With presence. With safe naughty stuff. With their dark and light eros. With their true nature of sexuality. With confident grace.

Dear men, There is so much to learn. So much to be inspired with. I look forward to meeting you. Beyond what the eye can see. Beyond the heart. Beyond the fear of being witnessed in all you are. Invited into something sacred. Something so loving. So beautiful. So strong. So crystal clear.

Your high-priestess & sacred guide

Book a Date & Dinner with me

A date to be touched and inspired. One to rise.

This moment can be great when you want to meet me. Feel me. Be inspired by me. By a woman of love and sacred eros. A woman of truthful life. A woman with a heart of gold. A woman with a radiance of pearlescent light.

This date is for you to feel the desire to grow as a man. This is not a date to cross the boundaries of your partnership. This is a date that takes you and your (future) partnership into more love and magic. I love the sparkle of dating. Of having a special moment. Of feeling eachother through light. Through a sweet moment. This is not a date to cross the boundaries of your partnership. This is the date to take your partnership into more love.

I am just here to inspire. I am here to initiate something beautiful. I am the woman who believes in a love that is forever lasting. I am a woman, attracted to true devotion. To gentlemen. That is why I level them up. We need greater men here. Leaders. Visionairs. Embodied Partners and Lovemakers. Fathers full of warmth. Brothers to other men out there.

Let us go in a night full of conversation. Heart to heart connection. Soul to soul meeting. Be with me in a moment without pressure. Be open to receive my invitation. Be ready to meet what is waiting for you. This date is not just a chance to meet me. It is a chance to meet more of yourself. We will work immediately straight into the heart. Let us meet in beauty. With joy. In tears. In sparkles. With anything that comes up. Allowing you to feel who you can become more as a man. A greater man. An embodied gentleman. Sacred and alive in all eras of love and life.

What's Included

Just note; Food and drinks are paid on top by the gentleman, as a true gentleman.

You can suggest a location too. Feel what resonates in the era of true gentleman hood. It can help you to feel that man already. Take me out. Surprise me. Feel amazing.

Grow in so much more love. Let it be a night of roses

group training packages

After your enquiry to work with me, a moment of connection is very important afterwards.

I will respond to your request to book a call.

Telegram Group
€555 pp excl. VAT per 3 months
Live Group Training
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1:1 Mentorship The embodied man
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Be the first on the list for my upcoming men group training. There will be an online group and live training. You will receive more information after your registration.

Testimonials

Georgy
★★★★★
“What an experience to work with Carmen. I am grateful that she came in my life with so much love. Everything is so pure with her. She did help me in many ways. Carmen, thank you. You are great!”
Gerline
★★★★★
“Carmen is a true Priestess of Love. She is aligned and extraordinary special in her work. Words are just a language. The dimensions she works with are beyond. Her work in love and sexuality are so pure. I wish everyone her deep devotion, her ground and her alignment. It is a deep inner journey that you have to experience.”
R
★★★★★
“I was a boy. I was crying and suffering. She teached me how to become a man. To commit to life and love. I was afraid. She triggered me since day 1. I was hiding and afraid to be alive. I was pretending. I did not know how to turn dreams into reality. How to ground and Embody. I had absolutely no clue untill I met Carmen.”
Michael, Founder & CEO
★★★★★
“The Soul Business Alignment session with you was filled with a lot of value. It was compact, and exactly at the right timing. It touched things within me and my business. I feel the transmission working through me and my life. I prefer to do more sessions like this, around every two weeks.”
Thomas, Founder & masculine leader
★★★★★
“Aside of the personal sessions, Carmen helped me to align my business with my soul. She saw my potential and gave me the courage and energy to thrive. She came right on time in my life and in my family, to help us find new energy and light.”
Mirte & Bas
★★★★★
“Who did think after 18 years that we would love ourselves and each other more through this couple weekend. We went deep. We did want that. To look deep within each other. We felt we had to be here with Carmen. Our ‘shit’ came up. We learned to stay open in our heart. We went from fire to love. We were making love! We did enjoy this so much. We went away with total bliss and practices that she gave us, to take home and expand our love even more.”
RoSANNE & MAX
★★★★★
“We think back many times to this couple journey. We use the teachings still together. We are more connected as partners and as a family together. After this journey he proposed to me. To marry me and I got pregnant again. This weekend did save our partnership! It was short but powerful!”
Mirjam, Coach & Horse Woman
★★★★★
"Carmen is a piece of light. We are connected through the dream realm and the joy that we both feel for life. I worked with her in Ibiza and in the Netherlands. She has humor and a pure connection to divine. My growth went super fast through her healing sessions. My retreat with her was a gift that I took with both hands. I could close a chapter of my old life, and step in fully in my new era. Through you I became more of myself. A better leader and teacher. "
Irina, Young Leader
★★★★★
"Carmen her initiations are soft but direct. She is sweet. She knows how to work with trauma. She wishes everyone to become the best version of themselves. I almost never met someone who gets me so clear. If you really want to take the broom through your life, work with Carmen! When she teaches tantra, she is really in her element. I said her one day; you are Tantra!"
Jorrit & Saphira, Devoted Partners
★★★★★
"I did release something within me, that was so deeply affecting me for twenty years. I am so happy with that. It is because of you. Your message was direct but clear. We are really grateful. We wish to work with you another half year. We love the Mentorship sessions. It gives us a lot."
Tom & Filiz, Entrepeneur & Partners
★★★★★
"I told my partner, that everyone should do this with Carmen every month. I never had anything with spiritual sessions, but there was a part in me that felt to just do it. In 3 sessions only, I did loose my insecurity, which I didn't even know I had. Without your expertise I would not be here. I made better choices in my work and love life. We sometimes tell eachother, that just some people need a spark of Carmen in their life."

FAQs

Is there a door policy?

Yes there is. In this club there is an exclusive membership that allows you to be part of something great. There will be a selection. Just to feel where you are with yourself, and where you want to be. If this aligns to the standard of becoming ‘the embodied gentleman’, you are more then welcome to enter this gate. If you feel a deep yes to become an even greater man, this is the portal for you.

 

Is there a physical place/club?

No. There is not a fixed physical place where we will meet up. There will be organised gatherings in live location. Any updates about that will be announced. Tickets for these gatherings can be bought online per event. I like to feel in, time by time, where and what is aligned. 

So how will we start?

First of all; there will be an online intake. Second you will be added to an online group. In this group you will receive more information and inspiration. Not just from me. But from eachother. In more eras of life.

 

I wish men to hold eachother in a sacred container of love. From love. From care. From true hearts. Later on, there will be a live training, which will be launched through Socials, Newsletter and the Telegram app. This live training is again; exclusive. It will be a full ride of initiation. To grow into something so enriched within yourself. It will support healing, transformation and embodiment. Again; in different levels of love and life. This training is not included in the price of the online group. The tickets can be booked separately.

 

Why would I join such a group of men?

It is not to just feel home. It is not just community. It is about something else. Something sacred. Something to experience. It is about creating a movement with eachother. A place of evolution for sacred men. This group will evolve not just with me, but mostly with eachother. I have the desire to attract men in this club, that really want to learn, inspire and give something back to life and love. For something greater beyond just the self. Something of magic. Something that makes eachother more great. More embodied.   

Becoming part of this group is about receiving and giving in, with all that you are. Meeting one another is a true medicine. In the live training you will experience that even more in person. I love to bring people in front of eachother. In confrontation. In a mirror of love. In holding eachother where pain exposes. Where roughness comes through. Where tears can be met in the hands of a brother. Where laughter can become a sharing of gold. What you will get there, from me and all these sacred men, is an experience. I wish words to be taken home silent but alive. Let it count forever.

 

Is there is Dress Code?

Yes there is. There will be guidelines.

To show up as a gentleman. It is not just about becoming this man. It is about honoring, devotion and submission. A woman’s heart is alive when she can let her initiation, flow upon and through you. From sacred domination. This training is led by a woman, a priestess, who embodies Love, Sexuality and Leadership. To obey a Queen, is not about her. It is to give you back home a word of meaning. A deep gratitude to life. To love. With just one word; respect. Understanding a deeper honoring to the feminine. To the Goddess out there in the world. This is what I want. Men who honor Women, so much more. As one with them. Seeing them whole. Bright. Complete. Meeting God more holy with her included. Meeting any man alive with this spark of God in himself. Without ego. Knowing that we all come from the same root. Women and men. This training takes you down, on your knees. Vulnerable to life. Open to more conscious. Breaking the wounds into stars. The shadows into light. The broken pieces into gold. The aura into more shimmer.

If I plan a date with you, what can I expect?

The first date is just about meeting one another. In a loving surrounding we enjoy food, conversation, music and preferably non-acohol drinks. By meeting you I will suggest a pathway for you, to grow in more beauty of becoming a sacred man. There is no intimacy included here. From a elegant approach, I wish you to arrive. Without any expectation, other then to receive initiation for a greater part of you to rise. From there on you can choose a pathway that suits you.

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